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How to Show Your Love to Your Husband
Dr. Dietrich Seidel Ph.D.
The list “How to show love to your wife” was published in the previous issue of the “True Family Times”. We offer here a corresponding collection of inspirations that may indeed spark the interest of all wives who want to improve their marriage relationship. Don't forget to post this list on your refrigerator door.
(1) Find every day at least one occasion to appreciate your husband.
(2) Turn criticism into encouragement.
(3) Pray for him and his special needs.
(4) Give him enough time to unwind when he comes home from work. Present any “to do” lists at a later time.
(5) Cook his favorite dinner.
(6) Play relaxing music when he is upset. Be a good listener.
(7) Every day do some spiritual readings together with him.
(8) Do not talk when he is busy but wait for the right time.
(9) Explain clearly to him what is on your heart and what you like; do nor let him guess your feelings.
(10) Be the first one to suggest “time out” when you get into an argument. After emotions have settled meet again.
(11) Be generous with hugs and kisses when he leaves for work and when he returns home.
(12) When he is late for dinner and he forgot to call, remember first all his good qualities when he arrives at home. Some time later share your honest feelings with him.
(13) Surprise him by arranging for a baby-sitter and spend the evening together.
(14) Put on your best outfit and put candles on your dinner table to welcome him home, just to tell him you love him.
(15) Take a walk with him regularly and make this the special time when you share your heart with him.
(16) Offer together some service in your church or community. This will also benefit your relationship.
(17) Arrange your bedroom beautifully and be early in bed welcoming him for a night of fulfilling sexual intimacy.
(18) Write him a love letter expressing your gratitude towards him and sharing your vision and expectations for your marriage.
(19) Make the extra effort to be more attractive for him. Wear elegant clothes, use some make up, be clean, neat and good looking.
(20) Add a love note to his lunch box with an uplifting saying that will make his day.
Be creative on your own to find more points in your relationship with your husband that make him feel loved and appreciated. Do not forget that only the consistent application of any of the above behaviors or activities on a daily or weekly basis will bring the desired improvement of your marriage.
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